Rejecting ProposalsCategory: QuestionsRejecting Proposals
Mariyum asked 3 months ago

Salam,
I am an unmarried girl who is turning 31 years old very soon. I\\\’ve been receiving proposals here and there but none of them made sense to me for some reasons. Those proposalas weren\\\’t matching my compatibilities and also due to long distance issues as well. It\\\’s been a while I haven\\\’t received a proposal and whenever my mom and I talk about in general we always end up arguing about me rejecting whatever proposals come in my way. She is saying that you said \\\”NO\\\” to all proposals and you are being \\\”Unthankful\\\” in the eyes of Allah so that\\\’s why Allah has stopped sending proposals to you. When I think about it, it does sound funny yet astonishing because Allah has created us, our destiny, and our partner that we will get married to. In my case whenever i get proposals the other side of the party stops responding, or sometimes it doesn\\\’t work out due to status, and sometimes they say no from their side. I don\\\’t get any click. I don\\\’t feel the vibe or connection. So does Allah really stops sending proposal after the consistency of rejection if you find out those proposals are non-sensible ? Or Allah has a better plan and when the right time will come your actually paired up destiny will show up through whatever way Allah has kept for them to meet ? I have full faith in Allah that\\\’s for sure but I jam very curious about Allah stop sending proposals to one when they say no to something when it\\\’s not destined for them ? Whoever I am created for and paired up with from Allah he will come to me no matter what correct? Thank you.

1 Answers
Fiqh Department Staff answered 3 months ago

بِسْمِ ٱللَّٰهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
As Salaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh,
We hope this answer finds you in high Islamic spirit.
No, Allah will never stop sending proposals because of rejection for a valid reason.
Yes, it is correct that Allah SWT will send the right person at the right time inshAllah.